One of the hardest things about coparenting with someone who is manipulative, controlling, or high-conflict is that, quite often, you don’t even realise what is happening at first. You think you’re just trying to do the right thing for your kids. You think you’re trying to create a healthier co-parenting relationship. You think if you can just communicate better, stay calmer, avoid conflict, or give in a little more, things will eventually get easier. Because the reality is,