We’re already two weeks into the new year—how’s it going? Have you been following through with what you really want, or has life already gotten in the way?
For single parents, the start of a new year isn’t about making resolutions you’ll forget by February. It’s about clarity. It’s about knowing exactly what you want—not just for your kids, but for you. Because let’s face it, if you don’t know what you’re working toward, how will you ever get there?
The truth is, life as a single parent is demanding. You’re juggling a million things—work, parenting, co-parenting (or doing it all solo), and trying to squeeze in some time for yourself. But this year, instead of just surviving, it’s time to get intentional.
Why Clarity is the Key to a Better Year
When you know what you want, everything changes. You stop wasting energy on things that don’t matter. You make decisions with confidence. And most importantly, you create a life that aligns with your values and goals.
Think of it like driving. If you don’t know your destination, you’ll spend your time taking random turns and hoping for the best. But when you have a clear map, you can stay on course—even if life throws a few detours your way.
How to Figure Out What You Really Want
Ask Yourself the Big Questions
Take a moment to reflect:
- What do I want my life to look like this year?
- What do I want more of? (Time, peace, financial stability, love?)
- What do I want less of? (Stress, drama, self-doubt?)
Be honest with yourself. This isn’t about what others think you should want—it’s about what truly matters to you.
Get Specific: Vague goals lead to vague results. Instead of saying, “I want to be happier,” think about what happiness looks like for you. Is it having more time with your kids? Finally starting that side hustle? Feeling confident enough to start dating again? The more specific you are, the easier it is to take action.
Check In With Yourself: Two weeks in, have you taken steps toward what you want? Or are you already off track? If it’s the latter, don’t stress—it’s never too late to refocus. The key is to keep checking in with yourself. Remind yourself of your goals and take one small step every day.
Focus on What You Can Control: As a single parent, there’s a lot you can’t control—your ex’s behavior, your kids’ moods, or unexpected life challenges. But what you can control is how you respond and what you prioritize. Knowing what you want helps you focus your energy on the things you can change.
Why This Matters for Single Parents
When you’re clear about what you want, you’re not just improving your own life—you’re setting an example for your kids. You’re showing them the power of self-awareness, determination, and resilience.
And let’s be real: as a single parent, you deserve more than just “getting by.” You deserve a life that feels fulfilling, exciting, and aligned with your dreams.

Make This Year Different
This isn’t about perfection. It’s not about setting impossible goals or pretending you have it all figured out. It’s about starting with one simple truth: knowing what you want is the first step to creating the life you deserve.
So, if you’ve fallen off track, take a deep breath, grab a notebook, and start again. This is your year to get clear, get focused, and go after what you truly want.
Because when you know what you want, nothing can stop you.
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